down to earth

If someone ever says I think you’d be good at that or at this .. they prob mean it… you prob don’t even realize how much they actually do mean it.. in a world where peo say things just because or for embellishment and in a world where there are a lot of introverts than we think who live everyday with the priority of protecting their integrity and humility… it’s a clashing idea to listen to compliments that could be speckled with invisible life direction and advice . We don’t really know how to read between the lines sometimes.. but it’s never worth throwing away the baby with the bathwater..

So even if you didn’t listen or you didn’t observe it before if later on you suddenly get a photo memory of an event where this actually played out and it’s only occurring to you years later that this person had a point … we question .. is it because we had to go through all that anyway … or could I have somehow picked up on that earlier…

we listen to things when we listen to them.. things hit us when they hit us even when they were intended for us a duration ago..

But the question remains.. why aren’t we always aware.. when things are so obvious to others how is there such a degree of separation to the person who doesn’t see it .. yet..